The Purpose Of This Site

This site is for people in one of the hardest situations they will most likely ever face.  Someone is in trouble.  Time is not on their side.  Someone is close to death, or it may have already happened.  "What am I supposed to do?"  Regardless of the illness or circumstances, the feeling are the same.  It is terrifying, it is agonizing, and it is most certainly...real.  On top of that, if there is money, property, or "stuff" left over...don't be suprised when the rodents start crawling out of the woodwork-- perhaps it has already happened.  It can go from bad to worse, fast.  It is my experience that Death & Money bring out the absolute worst in human beings.

We will be covering points regarding wills, trusts, estates, taxes, health care directives, power of attorneies, grief, mourning, bereavement...and all relevant topics that apply.  I will be enlisting the help of professionals, lawyers, doctors, real estate agents, private detectives, and notary publics.  We will be approaching this from a laymens standpoint, to help you understand.  We are hear to point you in the right direction.  We are here to give you the strength and encouragement to put you into action.  If there is still time....there is still time to make things right.  This is about practical knowledge and common sense that can help safeguard your newly found money, property, and stuff.....so that the vermin don't get their hands on it.

A few years back I watched A Golddigger, an Unethical Slob Attorney, maniacal psychopathic family members, and the government take over $500,000.00 from my father's estate.  Money that should have gone to my brother and I-- my father was divorced.  Money that should have gone to our children...is now gone from our hands forever....our Bloodmoney.  While $500K may seem like a drop in the hat for some-- it was a large portion of the entire estate, and life changing money for my immediate family.

My father died of cancer at the age of 53 years old.  For anyone who knows what cancer does, he was driven to a point of complete vulnerability.  Had it not been for my efforts, and help from my brother-- we would have lost more than we did.  Had we had correct guidance (guidence without motive), and family members to lean on-- a lot could have been done differently.  We were young, naive, and scarred to death.  We did the best we could-- but looking back, we could have done much better.  Hindsight is always 20/20.  I want my hindsight to be your immediate answer, so you do not have to endure what I've had to endure.  If I can help one person, in this entire world wide web with this blog-- that will bring tremendous peace in my heart.  Perhaps you are in this situation right now.  I want you to know, you are not alone.  You may have to do things that are not popular, you may have to take a stand-- but I'm here to tell you, you can do it.

There may still be time to  salvage what inheritance that is rightfully yours.  There might still be time protect your loved one, and clear the situation of any predators with malicious intent.  It may be YOUR JOB to do this, as nobody is going to care more about this than you.  It may be your time to rise to the occassion, to be a man, to be a woman...and to step up to the plate.  Your loved one's may have done this for you your entire life...and now they are weak, need your help.  They need someone strong.  They need a protector.  If you are reading this now, and can identifiy with what I'm saying, than the process has probably already begun.

There will come a day, when your loved one has passed away.  Knowing what to do "after the fact", could be the difference between saving hundreds, and hundreds of thousands of dollars.  Knowing what help you need, who to enlist, and what to do on your own, is critical information.  Getting in the wrong hands, taking advise from people who could benefit financially from your misery, can make all the difference in the world.  This site will cove topics that will help you deal with what to do "after the fact".  If that is your situation, this site is for you too.

The posts will cover one situation at a time.  We will do our best to ensure we give you unbiased information.  However, at the end of the day-- having professional help will most likely be necessary.
What I have to share with you is my own personal experience, my opinions, and something I am deeply passionate about.  I do not claim to have all the answers.  Nor will I assume responsibility if something suggested doesn't "go your way".  However, having no dog in your fight might make all the difference in the world when it comes to helping you-- I have nothing to gain.  If you haven't found out already-- those people are few and far between.  If you have questions, feel free to message me, I'll do my best to steer you in the right direction.   Till next time...

God Bless.
-DP